Today's Scripture Reading (July 23, 2026): Jeremiah 48
In March 1861, Queen Victoria's mother died. Even though her
relationship with her mother had been rocky, Victoria was deeply moved by the
event. Victoria was at her mother's bedside when her mother died, and her
feeling of loss was only intensified when she went through her mother's papers
and discovered that her mother had loved her deeply. Victoria's grief was so
intense that she began to disengage from even her own duties. In the months
that followed in 1861, it was her husband, Prince Albert of Saxe-Coburg and
Gotha, who took over her duties, despite being ill with a chronic stomach
condition. And then the unthinkable happened. At the beginning of December
1861, Prince Albert was diagnosed with typhoid fever. Prince Albert died on
December 14, 1861.
With the death of Albert so soon after her mother's demise, Victoria
went into a permanent state of mourning. The Queen wore black for the rest of
her life. The color indicated the darkness that had invaded her soul. Victoria
would reign for another 40 years, but during that time, she would rarely appear
in public. She rarely stepped foot in London. She shied away from all public
appearances, to the point that her reputation and the Monarchy's public image
began to decline. Her advisors begged her to make public appearances to remind
the people that she was still the Queen of the United Kingdom, but she only
agreed reluctantly. The defining feature of her life was no longer her status
as the Queen of the United Kingdom and the Empress of India. Her grief now
defined her life. All of this earned Victoria the nickname of "The Widow
of Windsor."
Jeremiah speaks in this passage, not of humiliation as some might think,
but rather of grief. In the pagan cultures surrounding Israel, each of these
behaviors is associated with grief. In ancient times, in deep grief, men would
pluck out their hair until they were literally bald; they would shave their
beards, which were considered the "glory of their faces." They would
cut themselves, especially their arms and hands, either with their fingernails
or with a knife, in an attempt to relieve the pain of their souls. And they
would cover themselves with sackcloth, a rough, uncomfortable fabric, to
indicate to the world that they were in mourning. All of this was an outside
view of an inner pain. And all of this is Jeremiah's message. Moab's pain will
not just be physical; it will be emotional, and it might be that the emotional
pain is more debilitating than the physical.
Sometimes we seem to be tempted to downplay our emotional pain as if it were
not real. But that pain is real, and it needs to be dealt with. The truth is
that our emotional pain changes more than just the way we dress; it changes the
way that we react to the world. Left unacknowledged, it can remove us from life
and stop us from making the difference in this world that we are intended to
make. And that is simply too high a price to pay for our unaddressed pain.
Tomorrow's Scripture Reading: Jeremiah 49
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