Today’s Scripture Reading (January
31, 2015): Ephesians 5
Quiz time.
Which popular 70’s sitcom is thought to be the first show to have contained the
sound of a toilet flushing? Following its first appearance, the flushing toilet
actually became a running gag on the show. The answer: All in the Family. I can still hear the toilet flush and then
Archie come bounding down the stairs. “All in the Family” was a funny show, but
it was also an important show. It was the first sitcom to take on issues that
the society of that day was struggling with, but also felt were incompatible
with a comedic format. “All in the Family” took a swing at issues such as
racism, rape, the Vietnam War, breast cancer, miscarriage, homosexuality – and,
of course, the flushing toilet. The comedy really changed the way we thought as
a society, and it did it for the better.
But the show
also taught us about the idea of submission. We almost hated Edith for the way
that she would allow Archie to push her around. Archie would order her like a
slave, call her dingbat, and when she did want to speak, often with a message
that we really needed to hear, Archie would tell Edith to stifle. It was almost
too much, even for that day and that age. Yet, Edith rose above all of that.
And according to Paul, Edith got it right. In fact, if you are married and you
want to make the most out of your marriage, watch “All in the Family” and pay
close attention to Edith – while ignoring Archie, who was the only real dingbat
on the sitcom.
Submission
is a ten letter word. Obvious, I know. But it is a ten letter word that we just
don’t like. In Contemporary culture there are two ten letter words that we treat
as if they were swear words. And submission is one of them – and maybe the
preeminent one. (If you are curious about the other one, it is discipline – we aren’t
much of a fan about that word either.) But we see no reason why we should ever
be submissive to anyone. After all, we have rights and we deserve respect. We
are the talented ones – if there is anyone who should be submissive, it is
others to us. All of this revealing that we would make very good Archie’s.
The problem
is that we connect the idea of submission with the idea of being talented or
worthy of respect, but those two concepts are totally unrelated. Submission is
a military word that carries the meaning of being one of lesser rank. There is
absolutely no doubt that a private fighting on the front line could be more
talented and have a higher intellectual ability then one of the general’s guiding
the battle from behind. But that private, as talented as he is, exists in a
chain of command – and he is submissive to the less talented general through
that chain of command. And it is quite possible that if the private learns the
lesson of submission, he will rise through the ranks and one day share the rank
of General with some other less talented soldiers. But if he doesn’t learn the
lesson, he will remain exactly where he is – a private – until the day that he
washes out of army.
This is the
image that Paul wants us to understand. Submit to one another does not mean
that they are smarter or more talented than we are; it means that we have
learned the military lesson. And really, that we are willing to recognized Christ
in each other. The unfortunate truth of Archie Bunker is that because of the
way that he behaved, he never really realized the worth of this jewel to which
he was married.
But Edith
got it. It didn’t matter what was happening around her, she showed how much she
valued this oaf who was ordering her around through her submission. Could you
imagine how great this television marriage would have been if Archie could have
mirrored Edith. It was the scene that we never saw on the show. Archie coming
through the door, home at last from work. Edith racing in from the kitchen, coming
through that swinging door with supper in her hands. And at this point Archie
races to her side and moves into the kitchen wanting nothing more than to take
some of this weight off of the shoulders of his bride. That would have been a
beautiful picture of mutual submission.
And it is a
picture of what the church is supposed to look like. We are to submit to each
other, racing to value others more than ourselves, not because the other is
smarter than we are, or more likely in our society because they are richer than
we are, but because we are following the example that has been set down before
us by Jesus Christ.
Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
by becoming obedient to death—
even death on a cross. – Philippians 2:6-8
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
by becoming obedient to death—
even death on a cross. – Philippians 2:6-8
And through
our submission, we begin to understand the Christian Faith, and show that
someday we will be read for a promotion.
Tomorrow’s Scripture Reading: Ephesians
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