Sunday, 25 March 2018

And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. – 2 Timothy 2:24


Today’s Scripture Reading (March 25, 2018): 2 Timothy 2
They gather around the things that they are opposed to full of anger. They lift their protest signs and shout their slogans. It often seems that, in the midst of their confrontation, they have finally found the place where they are truly happy. And there is nothing that they want more than for the confrontation to somehow continue. Or when the battle ends, they search for something else against which they can take a stand.

I understand that if it were possible to interview them in the midst of their most angst-filled moments, it would not be happy thoughts that we would receive in response. They would stress that they are trying to change the way that the world works. Sometimes these people believe that they are the instruments of God’s terrible judgment on the earth. But the reality is that they are neither.
I don’t care what the “hot button topic” might be, direct negative or violent confrontation rarely brings the desired result. Oh, we may be able to coerce a change in behavior with our weapons, threats, or even the overwhelming force of our personality; it is possible, given enough force, to coerce a behavior into the shadows or underground, but nothing has truly changed. And once the weapons or the threat has been removed, once the coercion disappears, everything will return to the way it used to be. If anything, these kinds of confrontations drive us further apart. If the issue is abortion, then the shouting and screaming and chaining of ourselves to equipment is more likely to entrench the various positions then bring unity. The Christian Church’s stand against same-sex sexual intimacy, often with violent and unnecessary rhetoric, has not brought the two sides closer together, it has driven us further apart. There is no solution. We simply make sure that our side of the issue is firmly entrenched. We go to battle with our favorite Bible verses proceeding like a sword from our mouths and wait for God’s wrath to devour our enemies.

Welcome to our world. Except that Paul seems to argue that it shouldn’t be this way, that this world of violent coercion is not the Christian Church; it is not the way that we do things. We don’t shout from the pulpits and call down hellfire on those who will not listen to our message. We step up with love, we are not quarrelsome, but instead, we kindly and quietly open the discussion, as much willing to listen as we are to speak. In this, we teach, not necessarily what it is that we think that they, our opponent, should do, but rather the reasons for our own personal belief. And maybe they, or us, gently change our opinions, even just a little. But no matter the result, Paul’s instructions leave us not as entrench enemies after the discussion, but maybe a little better friends with an increased understanding of the beliefs on both sides of the argument.
Personally, I have been ashamed of the way that the church has handled the abortion issue over the past few decades. Often, in the midst of the conflict, I wonder where Jesus would be? Would he carry the signs with images of aborted fetuses adorned with the word murder? Would he defend the practice, arguing that woman should be able to do what she wants with her own body? I can’t see Jesus doing either of these things. I can see him in the waiting room holding the scared little girls, because most of them are, and whispering in their ears, “No matter what happens in the next few moments, I am with you, and I love you. You are important to me.” And then I wonder if he looks over his shoulder and wonders why the Christians are still shouting their slogans outside of the clinic walls. Why is it that those who profess to be his followers refuse to love those who need to feel that love the most? I wish I knew the answer, but the reality is that we only seem willing to dig our trenches just a little deeper.

Tomorrow’s Scripture Reading: 2 Timothy 3

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