Saturday, 5 December 2020

So he got up and went to his father. "But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him." – Luke 15:20

Today's Scripture Reading (December 5, 2020): Luke 15

Steve Maraboli, in "Life, the Truth, and Being Free," writes that "the right thing to do and the hard thing to do are usually the same." Doing the right thing is never easy or something that we will stumble into and do accidentally. We have to purposefully set our minds to do what is right, planning each step of what we need to fulfill our responsibilities. And, often, doing the right thing costs us something that is important to us.

The story of the Prodigal Son or the Lost Son is an important one, a tale that most of us have heard several times throughout our lifetimes. It is a story of forgiveness and grace, but it is also a story about great pain. The father is in pain. He is separated from his child; he doesn't know where his youngest son is or even how he is. He cannot celebrate the good moments with his son or hold and console him during the tough times. He has been cast aside by someone he loves, which always results in suffering. As a result of that pain, the father gets up every day and finds time just to go out and search the horizon for his son. It is a hope against hope, but the father's pain demands the action.

But the lost son is also in pain. And the reality that the son understands too well is that he is the cause, not just of his father's suffering, but of his own personal pain.

The only character in the story that does not seem to be in pain is the lost son's older brother. He is happy that his annoying younger brother is gone and that the business now belongs to him. Everything that the father has now belongs to him. He believes that his father will get over the pain he is experiencing eventually. The problem with the older son's reaction to the situation is that it is his responsibility to try to fix whatever is causing his father's pain. It is not Dad's job to run to greet his lost son. It is the older son's responsibility to do whatever is necessary to attempt to repair the relationship, easing his father's pain. According to the cultural demands, he should have gone out and searched for his brother and tried to bring him home.

But instead, the older son does nothing. His inaction is more comfortable, and it gets him precisely what he wants. But it is not the right thing. It would be hard to find his brother, and at the beginning of the story, possibly even harder to convince his younger brother, let's be honest, who was a spoiled brat, that he needs to mend the relationship with Dad. But what is hard is often what is right, and that is true in this story. And as the younger son appears on the horizon, it should not have been dad who runs to him, but rather the lost son's older brother, because he has been diligently searching for him and trying to put right what had gone so awfully wrong.

Tomorrow's Scripture Reading: Luke 16

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