Tuesday, 16 December 2025

Keep your mouth free of perversity; keep corrupt talk far from your lips. – Proverbs 4:25

Today's Scripture Reading (December 16, 2025): Proverbs 4

Several years ago, on a Saturday in March, I took off to visit my own little desert. It was a beautiful day, and the experiment was to take place at a small church just south of the city. I had arrived with some friends to spend the day in silence. We arrived just before nine in the morning. We greeted each other and sat down in the small sanctuary. Our mentor, the one who was going to be our guide through this journey, led us in singing an old hymn. There were no instrumentalists; we just used our voices to offer this prayer.

Open my eyes that I may see

Glimpses of truth Thou hast for me

Place in my hands the wonderful key

That shall unclasp and set me free


Silently now I wait for Thee

Ready my God, Thy will to see

Open my eyes, illumine me

Spirit Divine


Open my ears that I may hear

Voices of truth Thou sendest clear

And while the wave notes fall on my ear

Everything false will disappear


Silently now I wait for Thee

Ready my God, Thy will to see

Open my ears, illumine me

Spirit Divine (Clara H. Scott)

And there we stopped singing. The next verse says open my mouth, but for the next few hours, our mouths were closed for business.

It is incredible the dialogue that goes on even when our mouths are closed. The practice of silence is anything but easy. Voices continue to ring in our minds through the silence. It sometimes seems almost impossible to stop them. Lists are made, the mind remains active, and all of this continues to drown out the voice of God. I took to doing some journaling. I recalled the story of another pastor who had suffered a burnout experience and stopped everything to spend some time in a monastery where the monks had taken a vow of silence. He told the story of how he filled yellow legal pads with his writing, just trying to get his thoughts out. By Thursday, he needed some contact, so he left the monastery for a few hours to visit an internet café, where he emailed everyone he knew, desperate for human contact. Then he returned to the monastery and took his place among the monks once more. Later, someone asked him if he had gotten in trouble for leaving the monastery, and he remarked, "Nobody said anything." There is a joke there that you might get in a few minutes.

Late that afternoon, we gathered again and shared silent communion. It was an intriguing experience, pantomiming the whole communion liturgy, lifting up the bread, breaking it, saying thanks for it, and then sharing it with each other. Then, pouring the cup out into small glasses, but still much larger than the ones we usually use for communion, once again thanking God for the cup and then taking and drinking. Finally, our voices once again penetrated the silence.

Praise God from whom all blessings flow

Praise Him all creatures here below

Praise Him above ye heavenly hosts

Praise Father, Son and Holy Ghost

Amen

And it might not have been until the silence was broken that I became acutely aware of how much I needed the silence. And how much more I needed to bring silence into my life.

I love the words of Chuang Tzu, a Taoist philosopher. He writes this;

The purpose of a fish trap is to catch fish, and when the fish are caught, the trap is forgotten. The purpose of a rabbit snare is to catch rabbits. When the rabbits are caught, the snare is forgotten. The purpose of the word is to convey ideas. When the ideas are grasped, the words are forgotten. Where can I find the man who has forgotten words? He is the one that I want to talk to.

He is also the one to whom I want to speak.

Sometimes the best way to keep our mouths free from perversity and free of gossip and slander is just to be silent. To be that person who has forgotten words, unless there are new and vital ideas that must be grasped.

Tomorrow's Scripture Reading: Proverbs 5

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