Today’s Scripture Reading (June 30,
2015): Genesis 45
Ten years
after the last bullet had been fired and the last bomb had been dropped in the
conflict that we know of as World War II, Jean Goss and his wife Hildegard
Goss-Mayr, two Christians known for their stand against violence of all kinds, travelled
to Poland with a request. Was it possible for a group of Christians in Poland
to meet with another group of Christians from West Germany? The West German
Christian would travel to Poland at their own expense for the meeting. They wanted
to come and ask for forgiveness.
The request
was made and the group of Polish Christians sat in a stunned silence. Finally
one member of the group responded to the request with the words that probably
everyone else at the meeting was thinking. “What you ask is impossible. Each
stone in Warsaw is soaked with Polish blood. This thing that you ask cannot be
done. We cannot forgive.”
The Goss’s
nodded. They understood the reaction. Ten years might have passed, but the
wounds were still raw. Forgiveness would happen, but it might be generations
away. The reluctance of the Polish delegation to meet with their West German
counterparts was understandable – maybe even expected. The pair began to gather
their things in order to leave, but before they left they stopped to celebrate
one of the great symbols of Christian unity – they stopped to pray “The Lord’s
Prayer” together with their Polish friends. Everyone in the room, including the
Goss’s, had suffered from the German aggression during the Second World War. As they reached the words of the prayer that
says “Forgive our sins as we forgive …” the voices in the room stopped. The tension
could have been cut with a knife.
The same
spokesman that had so eloquently outlined the reasons why a meeting with the
West German Christians could not happen, now raised his tear filled eyes to
look at Jean and Hildegard. His voice quivered as he spoke his next words. “I
must say yes to you. I could no more pray the Our Father, I could no longer
call myself a Christian – if I refuse to forgive.”
Forgiveness
is one of the essential elements of our human existence. Every one of us has
wronged someone and been wronged by others. Without forgiveness, the weight of
the debt just continues to build. Forgiveness says I no longer hold you
responsible – it lifts a weigh off of both the party that has wronged and the
one who has offended. And while we can forgive someone without their active
involvement in the process, the full power of forgiveness is not realized until
we can sit down and talk together.
Sometimes I
wish Genesis outlined what it was that Joseph and his brothers talked about in
this moment in their history. But then again, I am pretty sure that I know. In the
midst of catching up on all the details of life, forgiveness became a reality in
the family of Israel. The wronged and the offender began to realise the
importance of forgiveness. And because of it, a family and a nation was
changed.
Tomorrow’s Scripture Reading: Genesis
46