Saturday 19 January 2013

Joab son of Zeruiah knew that the king’s heart longed for Absalom. – 2 Samuel 14:1


Today’s Scripture Reading (January 19, 2013): 2 Samuel 14

Discipline is never something that is meant for public consumption. It is always a private matter. But while discipline is supposed to be private, often we seem to want it to be public – that is, as long as we are not the ones being disciplined. As a result, in public circles, keeping discipline private is a challenge. And sometimes, people get upset because they believe that discipline has not been applied just because it has been applied in private.

David knew two things. One was simply that Absalom was guilty of the crime; he had killed his brother. Yes, there had been a provocation. His brother was guilty of raping their sister Tamar, but still, a murder had been committed, and Absalom was guilty. And the crime had left David torn. He probably felt guilt over the rape that Amnon had perpetuated against his daughter Tamar. He definitely felt guilt concerning the murder of Amnon, after all, it was David that allowed the boys to be alone together in the first place. There was probably a big part of David that believed that he was the one that needed to be punished – and yet, it was his children that were bearing the punishment for David’s sins.

And so David’s decision is to banish his son. But it is a decision that costs David. And Joab realizes the burden and the cost that the king was bearing, and begins to hatch a plan to reunite the king with his son.

We all need someone around us who understands our pain, and is willing to try to help us. David, early in his life, had found that very thing in Jonathan, and now he finds it in Joab.  In actuality, Absalom would come back to the city, but not into his dad’s presence. It would be another two years before the king and Absalom would find themselves in the same room. But throughout this stage of his life, he would have Joab stand beside him and understand exactly what it was the David’s desired in his heart.

Tomorrow’s Scripture Reading: 2 Samuel 15

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