Today’s
Scripture Reading (April 26, 2012): Genesis 27
“Sticks and stones my break my bones, but names will never hurt me.” It is
the children’s phrase spoken by hurting children all over the English speaking
nations. And it is a lie. And not only is it an untruth, but it is one that
parents have taught their children to repeat. As parents, we want the words to
be true. But as children, we wonder why, if what our parents tell us is true, do
the words hurt so much?
And while, even as parents we want the words to be true, we know that
they aren’t – because we feel the pain of words. We know what it is to hurt
from the effect of words, and we feel the very pain that we try to tell our
kids isn’t really there. We cry and weep with their pain in response to words
that aren’t supposed to have any substance.
The truth is that sticks and stone may bruise me, they may even break my
bones, but those wounds will heal. On the other hand, the wounds produced by
words are often wounds that hamper us for life. And sometimes the words that
have been spoken over us echo through our lives so that we can hear absolutely
no other words. We are left with only the hurt.
So our pledge is often that we will endeavor not to hurt anyone with our
words. My prayer is that God will help me not to say words that will cause
harm. I wish I was more successful than I am – because sometimes hurtful words
are still spoken.
But to avoid the speaking of harmful words isn’t enough. We are to be
the encouragers of the earth, both the world at large and of the people that we
come into contact with on a daily basis. It isn’t enough to not do harm when
there is the possibility that we might be do great good with our words. It was
the secret that the ancient world knew. Isaac’s intention was to speak blessing
over Esau - because words are not intangible things, but carry a weight and a
mass that is greater than any stick or stone we can imagine. And if words can
harm us, if we can be so hurt by what is said that the echo of words can bounce
around us throughout the rest of our lives, then it is the responsibility of
the encouragers of the world to let the positive words ring out and echo
throughout the lives around us.
And my prayer is that we will speak so many words of blessing that there
will not be any room in our world for the negatives to be spoken. And that the
nature of the echo will change forever
.
Tomorrow’s
Scripture Reading: Genesis 28
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